DIANE GLEIM LICENSED MARRIAGE AND FAMILY THERAPIST AASECT CERTIFIED SEX THERAPIST & SUPERVISOR
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Sexual Responsibility: It's What's Sexy

7/31/2020

 
Every week it seems I encounter some harmful message from the culture at large about sex that my clients have internalized. It is these harmful messages that contribute to their sexual dysfunction or their troubled sexual relationships or their outright sexual avoidance. Lately, I have been focusing on the one about who is responsible for what in a sexual encounter and the gendered politics involved in it. Let’s dive in.
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Based on what this client was processing, I recently told a male client in his individual therapy session: “Your erection is not your girlfriend’s responsibility.” He then took a deep breath, paused, and bravely admitted that was painful to hear. (Hooray for honesty!)
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DIANE GLEIM  
LICENSED MARRIAGE AND FAMILY THERAPIST 
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​SONOMA COUNTY, CA
320 10th Street, Suite 302,
​Santa Rosa, California  95401
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